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  <title type="text">Conversation on The Sacramento Press about: Ask Officer Michelle - Abusive Ex Overstays Welcome</title>
  <link rel="alternate" href="http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/42713" />
  <subtitle>Officer Michelle-

I recently allowed my sons’ father to live with me because he was fired from his job (which was also where he lived) because he had no where else to go. After staying with myself and my kids for about two weeks, I asked him to leave because he became disrespectful and borderline abusive.

He completely refuses to leave and now it has been more than two months. He is not on my lease and I am afraid that I will get in trouble with my rental company for having someone at my res...</subtitle>
  <dc:creator>mlazark</dc:creator>
  <entry>
    <title type="text">By: oldpup</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://www.sacramentopress.com/comment/42852/Will_they_give_a_restraining_order_just_on_your_sayso_Officer_Michelle_implies_they_will_but_that_c" />
    <author>
      <name>oldpup</name>
    </author>
    <id>comment-42852</id>
    <updated>2010-12-29T21:44:58Z</updated>
    <published>2010-12-29T21:44:58Z</published>
    <content type="text">Will they give a restraining order just on your say-so?  Officer Michelle implies they will, but that cannot be the entire story, else impatient exes without coping skills would be pursuing them like free candy.

This is not a comment on the letter writer, who I think should just call the cops on the home intruder.  Is that not also an option?

Also, if a tenant told me her ex had been shacking up off-lease for two months, I would act immediately, and not necessarily on just him.</content>
    <dc:creator>oldpup</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2010-12-29T21:44:58Z</dc:date>
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    <title type="text">By: Keith Sharward</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://www.sacramentopress.com/comment/42764/You_have_a_right_to_have_short_term_guests_in_your_residence_that_dont_have_to_be_on_the_lease_agre" />
    <author>
      <name>Keith Sharward</name>
    </author>
    <id>comment-42764</id>
    <updated>2010-12-28T02:37:06Z</updated>
    <published>2010-12-28T02:37:06Z</published>
    <content type="text">"You have a right to have short term guests in your residence that don’t have to be on the lease agreement..."

Most rental agreements I have signed in the past limit house guests to stays of three days or fewer.</content>
    <dc:creator>Keith Sharward</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2010-12-28T02:37:06Z</dc:date>
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